And if the children adopted the right way, and showed no slackness in rendering the parents' lawful rights either, but the parents ill-treated them only for the reason that they did not join them in their deviation, they will not be able to escape Allah's punishment | L3gacy - Xwetiau - Bandit |
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and should not follow the wrong way whose falsehood has become clear to them even if the parents use every kind of pressure for it | English - Sahih International : And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge do not obey them To Me is your return and I will inform you about what you used to do• If the parents have misled the children, they will be called to account |
Indonesia - Bahasa Indonesia : Dan Kami perintahkan kepada manusia berbuat baik kepada dua orang ibubapaknya; ibunya telah mengandungnya dalam keadaan lemah yang bertambahtambah dan menyapihnya dalam dua tahun Bersyukurlah kepadaKu dan kepada dua orang ibu bapakmu hanya kepadaKulah kembalimu• In Surah AI Baqarah it has been said: 'The mothers shall suckle their children for two whole years, if the fathers desire the suckling to be completed.
This gives a sound reason for not obeying the parents in this regard | A saying of Imam Malik also supports this |
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But Imam Abu Hanifah has proposed the period of two and a half years as a precaution, and has added that it' the child has been weaned after two years, or even earlier, and it is no longer dependent upon suckling for its food, no woman would be forbidden for him If she gave him suck after that period, However, if the real food of the child is still milk | Swahili - Al-Barwani : Na tumemuusia mtu kwa wazazi wake wawili Mama yake ameichukua mimba yake kwa udhaifu juu ya udhaifu na kumwachisha ziwa baada ya miaka miwili Tumemuusia Nishukuru Mimi na wazazi wako Ni kwangu Mimi ndiyo marudio• When this is so in the case of even the parents, it should be so with every other person, too |
Swahili - Al-Barwani : Na tumemuusia mwanaadamu kuwafanyia wema wazazi wake Na ikiwa watakushikilia unishirikishe Mimi na usiyo kuwa na ujuzi nayo basi usiwat'ii Kwangu Mimi ndio marejeo yenu na nitakwambieni mliyo kuwa mkiyatenda• Melayu - Basmeih : Dan Kami wajibkan manusia berbuat baik kepada kedua ibu bapanya; ibunya telah mengandungnya dengan menanggung kelemahan demi kelemahan dari awal mengandung hingga akhir menyusunya dan tempoh menceraikan susunya ialah dalam masa dua tahun; dengan yang demikian bersyukurlah kepadaKu dan kepada kedua ibubapamu; dan ingatlah kepada Akulah jua tempat kembali untuk menerima balasan• The parents certainly have the right that the children should serve them, respect them, and obey them in lawful things.